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Better Latex Than Never

Written and moderated by Adrienne Gusoff

 

Dear Babe:

While I'm all for safe sex, in theory, I have a very real problem with condoms. Whenever I wear one, my penis gets all red and itchy, and it stays that way for days afterwards. When I tell this to the women I'm dating, they all think I'm just handing them some line so I don't have to wear one. The truth is, just thinking about what happens when I wear a condom turns my nice hard woody into limp linguine. I don't have this reaction with lambskin condoms, but I know they do not protect against HIV, so that defeats half the purpose of wearing one. My sex life is really suffering. Help!

-- The Itchy and Scratchy Show


Dear Itchy:

I'm not a doctor (but I play one on TV) and it sounds to me as if you have a latex allergy, which is nothing to be taken lightly.

Latex allergies have reached epidemic proportions in the U.S. Many scientists suspect the astronomic increase in the use of rubber gloves as the culprit. Where they were once used mainly by doctors, they are now worn by everyone from garbage men to child care and food workers to almost everyone in health care. Where annual use was once about 300 million pairs, it's now up to nearly 10 billion!

Such demand has overwhelmed manufacturers, mostly in Malaysia, who reportedly do not have the time to cure the rubber properly. The uncured proteins attach to the powder inside the gloves. Once airborne, they are inhaled, triggering allergic reactions. Symptoms range from sniffles and watery eyes to a rash to full out anaphylactic shock. Once highly sensitized, a person's life become hell in this world where rubber is used in everything: Band-Aids, fabrics, tires, rubber gloves used by food workers, even the innocent party balloon.

Though it sounds as if your allergy is not too severe, be aware that sensitivity can rapidly and unexpectedly escalate. (Not to scare you, but I've heard horror stories galore!) For protection during sex, you can use non-latex condoms such as Avanti or Durex.

I strongly urge you to seek the advice of an allergist before things escalate. Then, contact National Latex Allergy Network (formerly ELASTIC) at (610) 436-4801 or visit www.latex-allergy.org. They will provide a free info pack full of helpful hints and general information.



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