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Dear Babe:

I was watching an adult film recently and in it, the female star ejaculated. I realized, I'd never noticed any of my partners ejaculating. Granted, during intercourse, it's kind of difficult to tell, being that everything is already so wet down there. But even during oral sex, I never noticed it. I was wondering if most women, indeed, do ejaculate or if such a woman is uniquely talented? What does this female fluid consist of? Does it have any biological purpose?

--Old Faceful


Dear Faceful:

All of these are interesting questions to which nobody seems to know the answers. Some women ejaculate some of the time, some rarely, and others, never. And I suppose, there are plenty of women who don't even know if they do or don't. According to The Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex, the actual number might be as high as 40 percent, while other researchers disagree that women even ejaculate at all. (I often wonder if these guys purposely come to inconclusive results just to give themselves an excuse to continue their research.)

Those who do believe in female ejaculation don't even agree on what exactly it is. Some researchers say the fluid is urine; others, according to Kinsey, believe it's a "specialized secretion from the vaginal glands." A friend of mine who claims to ejaculate regularly during climax says sometimes it feels as if she's urinating and sometimes it feels like something completely different.

Since nobody seems to know exactly what this mystical female ejaculate consists of, it's kind of hard to know what its actual purpose it. I have my own theories, and suspect that Mother Nature meant for the woman to come first. Her ejaculation would then provide extra lubrication for her partner, who, theoretically, was still cranking away at his own.



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