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My "Gee!" Spot
Written
and moderated by Adrienne Gusoff
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Dear
Babe:
I've heard about the mystical G-Spot, but I'm still not sure how to
find it. And once I do find it, how much time should I spend there?
I actually asked a woman once, but even she didn't know. If the women
themselves don't know, what hope is there for us guys?
-- Fumbling Around
Dear Fumbling:
Many women don't know where their G-Spot is because they can't reach
it themselves; thus few are likely to discover it while pleasuring
themselves. Unless a partner has found it for them, it probably remains
"virgin territory."
The G-Spot is located on the upper, front wall of the vagina. To find
it, insert your longest finger and gently massage the area few inches
south of the belly button, on the inside. When you've found it, you'll
get a reaction, believe me! There will be women who aren't even exactly
sure what you're doing. All they'll know is it feels incredible!
Start with a light, rhythmic rubbing, encouraging your partner to
tell you which speed and level of pressure feels best for her. (This
might vary from moment to moment, as excitement builds.)
Don't think of G-Spot stimulation alone as foreplay. Think of it as
enhancement to whatever else you might be doing. Oral sex with simultaneous
G-Spot stimulation can send even the coldest woman into paroxysms
of pleasure.
Obviously, you can't reach the G-Spot during intercourse unless your
penis is strangely curved or you're wearing a device of some sort,
but if you've properly "primed" a woman, intercourse will be more
enjoyable.
Now you're thinking, "Yeah, but how long should foreplay last? You
still haven't answered my question." Well, sorry, but I can't
give you an exact number. Every woman is different. For some, five
minutes is plenty. For others, forty minutes isn't enough. To determine
how much foreplay a particular woman needs, tell her you won't enter
her until she begs. Then, drive her crazy with your newfound technique
and see how long it takes before she's screaming for you. (And remember:
getting there is half the fun!)
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